Don’t be fooled by Ram’s hard exterior. They are freaks in bed.
No-nonsense Aries prefers their sex the same way as they like everything else: straight up, no chaser, no frills. This is why missionary position is their favorite, because it’s simple and gets the job done.
Other erotic postures Rams can get down with are seated (feet flat on the ground) and rear-entry. Most of the animal-based zodiac signs (especially Aries, and to a lesser extent Sagittarius) have an affinity for doing the nasty like a dog, or in this case, like a barnyard goat.
It’s not to say that Rams are only interested in “vanilla sex,” because they can get freaky with the best of them. These lovers of power are especially adept at role-playing scenarios that involve authority.
Pass the handcuffs, please! Punishing police officer and speeding motorist is a fave, closely followed by naughty student and strict teacher. To shake things up once in a while, Rams might even be game to play the “bottom” and let somebody else take charge, but only occasionally.
The Ram tends to gravitate toward older, more experienced partners, people who are on par with them sexually and possess authority and expertise. Although, they aren’t averse to playing the teacher either. As an erotic educator, Aries can be patient, thorough and especially skilled in this role.
There’s no doubt about it: Aries are strong, powerful lovers. Think: sinewy barnyard animals. Again, like the other animal signs, the men can go at it for hours and possess impressive stamina. Firmly grounded, Aries females love to take the superior position and squat onto their partner (face or genitals), which gives them a feeling of supremacy. And power, as you know, gets them off.
Aries need a mate that makes them feel secure. Only then can the sharp ram’s horns break away to reveal the tender, faithful heart that beats beneath. Ram’s cautious nature causes them to tread lightly when embarking upon a new love. They are tentative, testing the ground before putting their full weight into the relationship. After which, they’re yours forever.
Did you know that the word “horny” meaning easily aroused, is a reference to the horns of a ram? That explains a lot about this Sun Sign.
Unfortunately, many Rams have a tough time with monogamy. Their mode of thought is that more is more — the more lovers, the more cars, the more orgasms — and that more is better. But it’s also possible for Aries to be faithful, devoted lovers with the right partner.
Key is Ram’s quest for success and to be “the top”; they sometimes won’t bust a move until they’re 100 percent sure of success. In other words, if a Ram sees a person they’re attracted to, they won’t take a chance and ask them out unless they’re absolutely certain they won’t be turned down.
Sadly, this tunnel vision might result in lost opportunities for them. But taking chances is a big no-no in their book.
Good matches for Ram’s are Scorpio, Taurus and Virgo, because each brings something to the table that the Ram requires. The latter two are similarly grounded Earth Signs, but Scorpio’s Water sensibilities help dilute Ram’s sometimes strong behavior. As a rule, Aries do better with other Earth Signs, but I’ve witnessed many happy unions between the Water Signs of Cancer, Pisces and Scorpio — especially Scorpio.
Although they do their best to appear staid and reserved on the outside, have no doubt that these satyr-like creatures can get kinky if they let themselves. Rams who follow these desires might even entertain fetishes that others consider taboo. Where they fall on the star charts indicate their degree of interest in BDSM, but nine times out of 10 Rams are interested, even fleetingly, in the dark avenues of love.
Because Mars, their ruling planet, is a hard taskmaster, some Rams might be under a great deal of internal pressure. Sexual abandon is one way they can help diffuse their intense energies. But Ram are happiest embracing their inner Ram and letting their freak flag fly.
Because their ruling body part is their beautiful bones, Ram’s legs are extremely sensitive, especially the knees. If you lightly stimulate the ticklish backs of their knees, they will shiver with delight. It’s an excellent type of foreplay that Rams are extremely responsive to. They might even get super-aroused by licking their way up and down a partner’s legs, along their inner thighs, just stopping at the genitals, a maddening but delicious game.
While they’re not exactly high-maintenance, the Ram does need lots of praise and reassurance in the bedroom. Their quest to be the best extends to their erotic endeavors. The good news is that Rams won’t give up until their partner is completely satisfied.