Having Sex With A Aquarius – The Bare Facts!

Having Sex With A Aquarius - The Bare Facts!

Aquarians are extremely lusty. Horn dogs and sex kittens, if you will.

The mirror opposite of their sweet and sunny demeanor, in the bedroom Aquarians take on a totally different persona. They can be downright kinky in many people’s eyes. Aquarius folks try to put forth a nonchalant attitude about sex because they want to project the image that they can take it or leave it.

As the symbol of the New Age of Aquarius, this sign takes a progressive approach to sex but, contrary to popular belief, it’s not necessarily into the concept of free love. Certainly, it believes in the importance of independence within sexual relationships and the right of each individual to a personal life of their own. But Aquarius is no more libidinous and no less faithful than any other star sign – unless, of course, it gets bored.

But for Water Bearers, it’s never rutting without substance. Things erotic are intensely deep and personal for them. Just like they can be prone to over-think and intellectualize everything else in their lives, Aquarius puts a great deal of brainpower into the sex act.

Without beating around the bush, I’ll just come out and say it: many Aquarians are into anal sex. Its social stigma attracts them, as do the sensations which are hyper-intense, bordering on pain and complex. Even straight Aquarian men crave a digit or two inserted deep past the knuckle every now and again.

Monotony, routine and mindless tradition always bring out the inborn rebel in Aquarius. Ruled by Uranus, the planet of experimentation, this sign needs lots of variety in its sex life with the stimulation of ongoing excitement and the chance to try out new things. This doesn’t have to mean it wants to jump into bed with everybody, though. Monogamy isn’t usually a problem for Aquarius – and as a fixed sign, sexually it can often be very loyal.

Because Aquarius is turned on by that which is new and different, sexual relationships with this star sign do, however, need to be kept constantly fresh and alive. To avoid its love affairs getting stale and uninteresting, it prefers to ring the changes, and is often happier in a semi-detached set-up which involves spending some time apart. Smother love is the kiss of death to Aquarius’s relationships, while absence often makes its heart grow fonder.

Many Aquarius ladies report that they can achieve orgasm solely from anal stimulation, much to the delight of their partners. Aquarians are turned on by the taboo.

While some Water Bearers are disturbed by this fact, most are not. Although they might appear cool and nonplussed in bed, Aquarians are generally adept lovers and are extremely open-minded. They hold their passion deep inside and try their best to contain their excitement, which they fear makes them appear vulnerable. Being horny, in their eyes, is losing control.

This is one reason that “sex from afar” is so appealing to Water Bearers. They are drawn to phone and cyber sex because they both create a safe distance — from themselves and from their messy passion. Since Aquarians are very heady (the big thinker of the zodiac), the idea of detachment is a huge turn-on for them.

So, disembodied erotic encounters, a faceless voice on the telephone, or engorged, unattached genitals on a video monitor offer Aquarius a perfect escape. Men, in particular, may carry on lengthy private chat room trysts that get hot and heavy, yet don’t jeopardize their marriages or serious relationships.

What you need to know is that Aquarians rarely stick to the rules when it comes to matters of the heart. They have their own unique set of morals and standards which are unlikely to conform to anyone else’s, but in turn they’re acceptant of others’ right to do exactly as they please. Sexually it’s almost impossible to shock an Aquarian. As the most forward-thinking sign of the Zodiac, anything and everything goes.

Strongly attracted to unconventionality, Aquarians prefer sexual partners who differ in some way from the norm, and the more out of the ordinary the better. Race, class, age and sexuality are no barriers to love for Aquarius – and as the star sign with the broadest take on variations of traditional coupledom, it’s also the sign most likely to shun tying the knot in favor of living together.

Open-minded, tolerant and undemanding – Aquarius makes a great sexual partner and friend. But if you’re looking for old-fashioned romance, and a lover to make you feel really special, the typical Aquarian is unlikely to fit the bill. Emotionally detached, and disdainful of sentimentality, they’re not very comfortable about expressing their affection. It’s rare for an Aquarian to say ‘I love you’. When they do, you know it’s for real.

When Aquarians indulge in role-playing romps, a favorite theme is cuckold fantasies. These days, cuckolding means not just having an unfaithful spouse, but actually getting aroused by watching your partner partake in another. So cuckold away, Aquarians!

This could mean setting up an encounter with another man or woman that the spouse watches from a clandestine spot, unbeknownst to the other partner. Or it could mean that the “other” is in on the whole thing. Often, this type of threeway relationship can endure for many happy years.

Even though the Water Bearer is not a Water Sign, they have certain water elements, especially in the sack. Aquarius gals are often gushers — that’s right, they actually squirt copious amounts of a thick, clear liquid when they climax. While this might put off some timid partners, others take it as the rare gift it is.

I remember a cousin confiding in me that he once dated a lady who was a gusher. When I asked what happened to her, he gave me a wicked grin and said, “I married her!” And wouldn’t you know it, his wife was an Aquarius through and through. Likewise, a good number of Aquarius men are right up there with their female counterparts, blessed with intense and bountiful emissions.

Because those born under this auspicious sign also tend to be very wise and knowing, they see the spark in potential partners that others do not. They are particularly attracted to those branded offbeat or odd. Physical differences don’t faze them — they have the gift of looking beyond the fact that someone may have a prominent scar, lost a limb or has dwarfism, and are able to see the unique, special qualities in someone society labels “disabled.”


Aquarius’s sexual style clicks best with Gemini, Leo and Libra and clashes most with Taurus and Scorpio.


its brilliance; its free thinking; its unpossessiveness.


its perversity; its unpredictability; its cold-heartedness.

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